He left and we hated him for it; he came, and we loved it for him. The fact that this had happened twice in LeBron James’ career could, in itself, make for a few documentaries.
The greatest player I’ve had the pleasure of viewing, the highest standards that I’ve come to expect, have come from Mr. James.
I grew up (or decided in the 6th grade–I know, pretty old) a Miami Heat fan; I had to rebel to the highest degree from my California natives, so I went as far East as the United States would allow my eleven year old mind to reach. South Beach. Being the wide eyed, single minded kid I was, all I did was watch an electric Dwyane Wade. This was back when an assist meant Wade should’ve taken the shot for himself; back when I only saw him on the court–David vs The Goliaths, every time I watched; back when I didn’t see the spot-up shooter, or even cared for him; back before I knew everyone’s names (even the assistant coach’s) and knew what PER and plus/minus was. D-Wade was superhuman to me. Those might’ve been my favorite years of fandom. Because now, I find myself focusing a team’s fourth best player running around screens, instead of just salivating over my favorite player(s). My love for NBA basketball is trying to supplant my emotional connections to my favorite players and team, which feels like cheating on your fun college girlfriend, but with the girl that has already graduated and doesn’t plan to be a career waitress and has her head on straight. It feels weirdly wrong. (I’m not knocking on the waitresses out there. If I was a cute, young chick, best believe I’d hustling for those tips. But, I’ve only got 2ish out of 3 of those attributes. Bruce Jenner is giving me hope though! I kid, I kid.)
Back to an entering-middle-school me: I’m watching more hoops. Every Miami Heat clip I can find. And, at this point, I’m starting to have more appreciation for the team, and team basketball, in general, which in turn gave me a greater respect for my favorite player (Wade). He did so much sometimes. Did it ever hurt?, I thought. He moved so fast and played with so much fervor. Was he ever tired? How does he do THIS so often?, I thought. I started to care about my favorite player’s well-being, which is a big thing for a twelve year old–you know, to think about someone else for a change. And sometimes, I felt bad watching players carry teams. I’d see the expression on their face after trying to launch another shot to keep their team afloat–only for it to miss. I guess there are consequences for caring.
Fast Forward to The Decision:
I knew who LeBron James was, I knew he was an awesome basketball player, but I was so biased toward my guy, D-Wade, the South-Beach-Shimmy, It didn’t even cross my mind that LeBron would/could be better than my guy. But when James made his decision to take his talents to South Beach, I didn’t how to feel. I remember wondering how it would change the team. And Chris Bosh was an after thought at this point, unfortunately. (I liked Bosh, I knew he was good; he just didn’t move the needle for me, at that time. Sorry, Bosh–I love you now. Hoping for a full recovery from possibly the toughest Heatle of the past 5 years.)
It was weird being a fan of a team that was supposed to win the championship. It was more fun than anything, though. Wade and LeBron, an unbeatable tandem. And still not enough evidence to prove to me that LeBron James was a better player. I was living a sports fans dream. Their first season didn’t start well, but I wasn’t worried–we had Wade. And where there’s Wade there’s W’s. In my mind, I remember not really embracing LeBron until the finals. I was mad at him for “losing” the finals for us. Everyone felt some animosity. You were either a disappointed fan, or you were a haha-I-told-you-he-wasn’t-a-winner hater. It almost gave me more ammo to for my Camp Wade bunker, but it didn’t. I was too involved in the team. I hated that we lost and King James was just my scapegoat.
Next season, our year for redemption, I started to see the physical limitation of Wade. And not in the way you think. It was more the seemingly endless physical limitation of James, rather than the extent of Wade’s, I recognized. LeBron was bigger, stronger and made everyone better. He was now greater–more often–than Wade. And he did so much. He was better. A championship came, which was followed by another; I was a spoiled basketball-brat. Greatness was expected and the Miami Heat exceeded it. Again and again; finals trip after finals trip. Listen to this crazy run: Lebron won MVP, led us to a championship (finals MVP), arrow headed an olympic gold medal win, won MVP and then, carried us to another championship (finals MVP–big shout Ray), again. That’s even a long winded sentence; imagine that stretch of time for the man living it. It was so fun watching it all, and I’m sure LeBron had an extraordinary time experiencing it. But, after all the accolades, those thoughts from middle school started to pop up in my head again. He does so much. Was it ever too much? How was he not hurting? He was the best scorer, the most precise passer, the most voracious rebounder. I found myself feeling like he was carrying too much weight. And all this while getting the most public criticism from the media any athlete has ever gotten. He had to be tired. I knew he was.
After our repeat finals win, I knew something not-so-great was going to happen (by back-to-back champs standards). It was as simple in my head as I’m sure you’ve heard before. The best Western Conference team got better, and the best Eastern Conference team didn’t. So, when we lost in the Finals, I wasn’t surprised. But I was still as frustrated as when we lost to Dirk & them boys. Instead, this time, I was mad at everyone, except LeBron. How did you expect him to do everything? You can’t miss that shot when he makes a pass that good! He can’t lead every column in the box score, every night. These were all the things I was thinking (plus, a few of the words you’d commonly use in madlibs, when you were a waay too immature 13 year old). He did so much, and gave so much to his team, every night. It was hard not to sports-love the guy. So, when he left South Beach, I found myself still attached to LeBron. I’m still a Heat fan, but I have to root for the guy. If you’re a Heat fan, and you appreciate what he did for the team, I don’t see how you can’t hope the guy succeeds in life. (Of course, assuming the Heat aren’t in the playoff picture, like right now.) LeBron did to me, what Dwyane Wade did in my middle school years. He made me care for his well-being. But–he’s not on my team anymore and he’s still in our conference. I’m torn between two of my favorite players: A man who has given everything he could for a franchise (Wade) and man who has done the same, in my (not so) humble opinion, while being the most compelling sports figure I’ve ever watched (James).
It’s weird that I care so much.
I mean, these guys are making millions of dollars to play a game. But it’s a game I love, so I guess it doesn’t matter the circumstances. Both of the mentioned players have made me care more for people I don’t even know–people I’ve never actually seen–than I ever thought possible. Dwyane’s decline and relaxed minutes has helped my curse for caring. But with LeBron still chasing rings and leading the pack, I find myself still watching over him, even though it’s not my pack. He’s back at it and his men are falling. As I watch Kyrie re-aggravate his left leg, and LeBron hurt his 30-year-old-back while reaching for a rebound I wish his big men could’ve got, those prepubescent thoughts come back. His team needs to step up for him (they did). How can you miss that shot when he makes that pass?! He has to be hurting.
Then, just now, I see LeBron play lazy defense on a C+ Joakim Noah and still get a block after getting blown by. He’s still the best player in the league, and he’s still playing a game for millions of dollars, and superstars are superstars because they always have too much on their plates, yet they still perform–I just need to remember that stuff. I care way too much. Can’t I just watch the fucking game?